How Exceptional Project Managers Are Approaching AI

by
Emma Demmerle
January 13, 2026

Project managers, here’s a quick test:

If AI took over your job tomorrow, would your team still need you?

For some PMs, the honest answer is uncomfortable, because their value is tied to coordination, admin, reporting, and reminding people what they already know. AI is good at that.

But for exceptional PMs, the answer is obvious. They were never hired for busywork. They were hired because projects get messy and stakeholders disagree. Requirements shift and teams get stuck. Decisions stall. Projects need a point person who can make decisions and keep things moving in a way that’s uniquely human. AI can’t sense hesitation from someone across the table. It can’t manage conflict without context.

Here's how exceptional project managers are using AI without letting it rule every aspect of a project.

1. They use AI as an intelligence engine.

Project managers shouldn’t be stuck typing while discussion happens. They should be able to watch for confusion, notice which stakeholder is quietly disengaging, and catching the moment where a decision almost forms but then slips away. AI lets them stay present and manage the room and guide the conversation. It removes a distraction.

Projects often face issues when memory gets rewritten in real time. Someone will casually redefine what “we agreed” means, and suddenly the project is heading in a different direction. AI provides a kind of objective anchor that keeps the project from drifting based on whoever spoke most confidently. AI handles the capture. The PM handles the conversation.

2. They use AI to surface implications and risks.

AI can’t replace human judgment, but it can strengthen it. AI can help project managers process information or meeting conversations to spot hidden risks, assumptions, dependency issues, timeline issues, scope creep, etc. They can ask things like, “What would a skeptical stakeholder push back on” or “How would this decision affect daily operations for X department” to guide thinking.

If someone has an idea, AI helps pressure test it: what breaks, what dependencies emerge, what new failure modes appear, and what pushback might come later from a stakeholder who wasn’t in the room.

3. They use AI to create better retrospectives

Retrospectives are typically performative and ineffective. Teams repeat the same vague observations week after week. A few loud voices dominate. The group dances around the real issues because nobody wants conflict. And the retro ends with the usual conclusions: we should communicate better, plan earlier, align more. Everyone leaves and nothing changes.

AI makes retrospectives less about feelings and more about reality. Project managers can use AI to extract patterns across multiple retrospectives and find root causes so project managers can figure out what’s not working. It helps them redirect the retrospective into a strategic process where decisions actually get made and teams become sharper.

4. They use AI to improve decision-making quality

One of the biggest traps in project management is the belief that activity equals progress. Projects can be full of motion and still go nowhere. Meetings happen, updates get shared, charts get refreshed, Slack stays busy. But nothing truly moves until decisions are made. And many organizations are decision-starved.

AI is excellent at structuring messy thinking into decision frameworks. It’s also helpful for making communication sharper, more concise, thorough without being wordy, and respectfully candid. That kind of communication is a major leadership tool. And it frees the PM to spend more time aligning people rather than formatting status decks. The project manager can shift from managing updates to managing decisions.

5. They keep AI in the back of their mind and seek opportunities

Project managers keep AI in the back of their mind during normal project work, and they naturally start noticing where effort is wasted. They don’t ask, “How do I use AI today?” They notice, “Where are we burning time on repetitive work that AI could augment?”

Great PMs don’t frame AI as a threat. They frame it as leverage. That creates buy-in and experimentation without fear and helps their team be more efficient.

The Future of Project Management

The best project managers are using AI to automate what should be automated so they can spend more time doing what can’t be automated. That is the future of the job. AI will force the role upward into stronger judgment, context-specific decision making, and ability to navigate ambiguity. All things that AI can’t do the way humans can.

At Trenegy, we help organizations navigate AI and major projects that requires technology, process and people changes. To chat more about this, email info@trenegy.com.